Hi everyone! As I am sure you all know, this is Sarah C. I see there has been quite a lot of controversy about my life style. I told myself I was going to try to ignore the "haters" as much as possible but instead I choose to elaborate on the topic. I would love to allow all of the viewers to take a deeper look into my life and what it means to be a princess. Although some may view it as a bad thing, I firmly believe that ALL women deserve to be treated like a princess and they should never settle for anything less ;) Call me a Disney freak, but I believe it is true. there is no reason why we can not all live Cinderella lives or at least strive for them......and for the record, I have had a few boyfriends pay my bills but it was only ONE at a time :) They did it out of love for me and I never once asked for a single penny!!!!
I believe that every girl at one point in her life has the desire to be a princess. we are taught that from an early age via fairy tales. Some girls have a Father that is close to them and they experience what you would call a "Daddy's Girl" phenomenon. That typically satisfies the crave for the inner princess desire. I on the other hand, had a different story. My parents divorced when I was only three years old. I was the oldest child and always wanted to be a daddy's girl but I guess it never worked out that way. we were not very close and he became very preoccupied with his new marriage and new children. My mother struggled her whole adult life trying to raise my brother and I to the best of her abilities while battling my father the whole time. His wife was jealous and resentful and made sure to destroy the relationship between my parents as well as the relationship between my father and us. I saw from a very early age that my mother struggled financially and emotionally. She worked like crazy and always had to budget. My father was quite successful but it was never passed our way. I grew up knowing that I never want to experience the struggles my mother did nor did I want my future children to go through the pain that I did.
As I grew a little older and started dating, I found a very scary world out there. You hear about men and then you wonder how a woman could not hate them all. So many of them are jealous, insecure, mentally abusive, physically abusive, or unfaithful. I witnessed so many great girls get torn apart, heart broken, and or abused by their boyfriends. I saw so many tears and saw so much pain and frustration. I could not seem to accept it. I could not understand why anyone would willingly choose to go through that. I do not think any guy is worth it and there is no law that says you should stick it out in hopes of changing him and making things better. I saw a common link that most of the girls stuck around out of fear that they would be worse without the guy. as if it is a bad thing to be alone!!! In my eyes there is nothing worse than the girl who cries oh poor me but yet keeps running back to her bad relationship.
I chose to play a different game. I was not going to even consider putting up with any bull shit and if it came my way I would have no problem walking away. Life is short and I sure am not going to waste my time on a guy that is not worthy. RESPECT is key and without it no guy is worth your time. He should cherish you and be your number one supporter no matter what it is you choose to do in life. He should make your needs just as important as his own. I am also old fashion, not saying it is right for everyone, but I believe the guy should be the provider. As I started holding these standards, I found that I only met quality guys. I found that for some reason I fell into the hands of moral and successful people. That happened to open my eyes even more. I realized that there was a different world out there.....one where I could be treated like a princess and that I could be valued and cherished and due to the success spoiled as well ;)
This discovery worked out great. I was traveling, fine dining, experiencing life the way life should be. Now I am certainly not saying that a rich guy is the end all and final answer to life. A rich guy is like a hot girl....they are a dime a dozen!!!! just because you are wealthy does not make you wonderful. You need more than that. But if you happen to be so lucky as to find a wealthy guy that you have a connection with life can be nice. One that you get along with and have a mutual respecting and loving relationship with. Well I happened to find that and ever since I have been a princess.
Do not get me wrong. I do not sit around and just do nothing. I do keep myself very busy. I have acting classes, I go to the gym, I read a lot, I do lunch with friends, I hit up clubs at night, I travel, I go to the spa, I visit my family often, I can always find something to do and I love working on new projects.
So there you have it. I am a princess and I am proud. I only do what I am passionate about. But the best pat is.......I LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST!!!!! I have no regrets and if you can not handle that stop reading because I will post more ;)
